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Saturday, September 21, 2013

Legally Wed!

Although Noell and I held a wedding ceremony last year, we technically were not "married" in any legal way.  We knew what the climate was for gay marriage and we felt strongly that the current fight going on would end in our favor......at least eventually.  We decided to skip the whole Domestic Partnership thing and hold out for the real deal.  We wanted the for-sure, can-leave-money-to-my-wife-without-unfair-taxes, visit-each-other-in-the-hospital, can-file-for-taxes-jointly, SS-benefit-receiving, forever-legally-binding type of marriage.

And we got it!

In June, 2013, (a little over a year after our original ceremony) the Supreme Court made two historic rulings regarding same-sex marriage.  One was the denial to hear the case of the upholding of Prop 8 in CA.  The other was the striking down of DOMA. If you are not familiar with these rulings, feel free to Google any of them or check out this article.

We quickly decided that we needed to act sooner rather than later. Several of our friends were married 5 years ago when it was legal in CA but some had missed the window of legality back then, and they regretted it.  We didn't want to take any chances in case this was not a "forever" decision in the state of CA.  Luckily for us, this time it seems to be sticking and there is little serious talk of overturning anything in CA at present.

We wanted a small, simple ceremony since both of us considered our wedding a year ago to be the "real" wedding.  We asked our friend Thyme to marry us as she is licensed to do so in CA.  We invited just a handful of people out to Sunset Cliffs and had a quicky wedding.  Followed by pizza and beer. 'Cause that's how we roll.


The ceremony.

Z-team.

The wedding group.

Not the official kiss.

The cutest baby, Noa. (Thyme and Adria's daughter)


A lot of love on that cliff. 

Pizza and beer.

Thyme signing the official paperwork.

Cheers!
Thank you to everyone who came and celebrated with us.  Special thank you to Thyme for being our officiant and writing meaningful and personal vows for us.

Saturday, June 8, 2013

In which one niece loves me and one niece doesn't

 About 2 months ago I was finishing up my clinical hours for my nurse practitioner program and I had to take a practice test for my comprehensive exam to graduate from school.  I studied and felt ready and so I took the test....I barely passed.  It was by such a slim percent that I passed that it scared the crap out of me to think about the real comprehensive exam and my board certification test.

I panicked and decided RIGHT THEN that I needed to take a review course for my boards.  I figured it would help on both exams.  The comps exam is supposed to test my knowledge of all (3 years) of my masters education and my masters education is what is supposedly preparing my to be a NP.  So, it made sense, taking a review course was just the ticket.

So I searched and searched and there were no review courses in San Diego for the next 6 months or so.  I contemplated heading over to Phoenix for a course, which would have added the cost of driving, hotel rental, and food, but it seemed like a good option considering that it was the closest review to SD.   Then, I had a brilliant idea...maybe there is a review course in St. Louis sometime soon?  Yep, turns out it was timed perfectly for my studying and test schedule and also was a course that a fellow classmate had recommended. Perfect! I signed up for the course and booked a flight.  Of course with some extra time to hang with the family.

Even luckier for me was the fact that my brother and sister-in-law had recently sold their condo and were in the process of looking for a new house so they were staying with mom and dad too.  When I travel to St. Louis I usually get to see my nieces and nephew in little spurts, but this time it was non-stop.  I loved it.  My sister also drove home and spent some time with me which was great.  She used to blog too and I think she should re-up this space and entertain us with her tales of teaching.

To introduce the cast of nieces and nephew.....Benjamin (Ben, Benny, Buddy, Benji, etc.) is 3, and the girls, Elisabeth (Biffy) and Alaythea (Laythie bear), are 18 months old.  Ben and Alaythea were open and excited to have a new person around to play with, read with, and cuddle with.

But that Elisabeth.  She wanted nothing to do with me. At all. For the entire week.  At first my mere presence in the same room with her would cause an outbreak of tears. By the second day, it moved to standing in the same room was ok, as long as I didn't make eye contact.  By day 3-4 a little eye contact was tolerated but careful...not for too long!  Finally by day 5-6, I could make eye contact and even play silly games and make faces across the room.  Even got a few smiles out of her.  I thought I was doing great and I should definitely be able to play next to her or even hold her--NOPE!  She was not having any of that!  It was actually quite comical.  I will admit that on the last day, literally as I was saying goodbye to them, she tolerated me holding her and there was a photo snapped of it for proof.  Here are some pics of these cuties:


Alaythea


Laythie bear bed head

Big brother Ben

The girls in their seats

A small smile from the elusive Biff

Benny helping papa fix the umbrella

Smiley Lathie

Benjamin and I having s'mores by the fire

And I did do some other things while I was in the Lou.  My parents took my sister and I to  a Cardinals game.  It was a good game, and we won!  Great seats too! Thanks Mom and Dad!



Can you see the arch cit into the grass?





See you on the flip side St. Louie.

Sunday, January 6, 2013

Christmas 2012

Today will be few words and many pictures.

I was lucky enough to marry into a family that has an amazing talent for cooking, baking and everything to do with food.  My mother-in-law, Carol, makes amazing hand-dipped Christmas candy and she had taught me how to do it!   But! This year for Christmas she was in town and we were able to make the candies together.  It's always more fun with a buddy.

First you make the centers....

Coconut centers

Caramel centers

Marshmallow centers

Step 1 of butter-cream centers

Step 2 of butter-cream centers

Step 3 of butter-cream centers


Final step of butter-cream centers

Peanut-butter centers and butter-cream centers

 And then there is chocolate....It starts like this, the biggest candy bar you have ever seen!

Hello, welcome to the kitchen


Melting

Tempering (bringing the chocolate down to the right temp for dipping and ending up with a shiny pretty finish)


Sea salt caramels

Mallows

Peanut butter

Peanuts in milk


Butter -creams all ready to go!


We didn't get any pictures of us dipping due to the fact that we were both covered in chocolate and unable to handle the camera.

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Christmas Eve is Carol's birthday so we celebrate it as a birthday party instead of Christmas.  Jennifer and Kip made a wonderful dinner and we had food, drinks, family, and friends.

Appetizers

Chris and Otis

From left: John, Otis, Carol and me

Molly and Chris

Happy Birthday Cheesecake


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Christmas day we celebrated at our house with gifts, and brunch.  Later we went my my aunt and uncles home for dinner (and to Skype-open presents with my parents!) but I forgot my camera for that. Bummer.


Someone is excited to open presents! (Check out Elka taking a sneak peek!)

Nana, Papa, and John

Deedle deet

Kain

Nala Bear

Elka Bean


Deet likes the hut

I got kind of involved in Christmas and stopped taking pictures once the open of gifts started.  I just wanted to enjoy the time and not worry about getting good shots of everyone.  Hope you all had a magical Christmas and are off to a great start this new year!